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The Problem Every Bourbon Lover (and Busy Parent) Knows Too Well

You know that wound-up feeling at the end of a long day when everyone’s home but nobody’s really together?

Kids are scattered. Wife’s doing her thing. You’re doing yours. Everyone’s in the same house, operating in different orbits like some kind of dysfunctional solar system.

That was us. Every night. Until I bought something for myself that I had no business sharing with my family.

A bourbon nosing kit.

I’m not kidding. The thing that was supposed to make me better at identifying “notes of vanilla and charred oak” in my bourbon somehow turned into the most fun we’ve had together in months. And it keeps happening.

Even when my oldest son brought his girlfriend home from Alabama after Christmas, we ended up sitting around the dining room table passing little bottles around, laughing our heads off while she tried to guess if she was smelling cinnamon or clove.

Who’d have thought smelling scents would be so fun and something we’d all enjoy? It was sort of hard to believe actually.

But here’s the thing nobody tells you about bourbon education: sometimes the best stuff happens by accident.

Why I Bought a Bourbon Aroma Training Kit

Last year I ordered the Bourbon Real Talk American Whiskey Aroma Kit as part of my training to become an Executive Bourbon Steward.

This wasn’t some whim. I’m fascinated by bourbon – the combination of art, science, and patience it takes to make it right. And if I was going to get serious about it, I needed to train my palate beyond “yep, that tastes like bourbon.”

The kit showed up and I was excited. Thirty-six different scent vials representing everything you might find in American whiskey. Vanilla, caramel, leather, tobacco, tea, dill – stuff I knew I was missing when I nosed a pour.

So there I was one evening, sitting at the kitchen bar, going through these little bottles like some kind of bourbon scientist. Sniff, think, check the label. Sniff, think, check the label.

How a Bourbon Training Tool Became a Family Game

My wife noticed first. “What are you doing?”

“Smelling.”

“Can I try one?”

She couldn’t guess what she was smelling. Wanted to try again. Then my oldest son walked through and wanted a go. Then my youngest.

Next thing I knew, we’d moved to the dining room table. We developed this impromptu system – randomly pick a bottle, make sure nobody sees the label, everyone takes a whiff, hold your answer till everyone’s done, then reveal what you thought it was before checking if you’re right.

Turns out, we’re all pretty terrible at identifying scents. But we’re terrible at it together, and that’s somehow hilarious.

The competitive streak kicked in a little – nobody likes being wrong when your kid gets it right – but mostly we were just laughing. Having fun. Actually engaged with each other instead of running through the usual wound-up evening routine after long days.

I thought, “Well, I’ll be damned.”

The next time I got it out, same thing happened. Now sometimes they bring it up. “Hey, let’s do the nosing kit.”

We haven’t turned it into a formal scorekeeping situation yet – it’s still pretty laid back, just who got it right and who didn’t for each vial. But it could evolve. Right now it’s just a good time.

Does a Bourbon Nosing Kit Actually Improve Your Palate?

And yeah, it actually worked for what I bought it for. After a year-plus of using it at least weekly – more often in the beginning – I got significantly better at identifying bourbon notes. Especially the subtle stuff I would’ve had a harder time with: cloves, dill, tea. The kind of things that separate someone who drinks bourbon from someone who really understands it.

You can read more about training your bourbon palate here if you’re interested in getting serious about it.

But the family thing? That was the real surprise. That was the part I didn’t see coming and couldn’t have planned if I tried.

Bourbon Real Talk Aroma Kit Review: Is It Worth $215?

Look, I’m not gonna BS you. The Bourbon Real Talk American Whiskey Aroma Kit runs $215. That’s not pocket change.

But here’s what you’re getting:

Thirty-six scent vials covering the full spectrum of what you’ll find in American whiskey. Not ten. Not twenty. Thirty-six. Everything from the obvious stuff like vanilla and caramel to the sneaky notes like dill and tobacco and tea that’ll make you sound like you know what you’re talking about when you’re sitting around with other bourbon folks.

A real education. If you want to level up your bourbon game – and I mean actually get better at nosing and tasting, not just pretending – this works. It worked for me. Weekly practice with this kit made a significant difference in what I could identify.

An accidental family activity. I can’t promise your family will love it like mine did. But I can tell you that in a world where getting everyone off their phones and engaged in the same thing is harder than finding Pappy at retail, this has a pretty good track record in my house.

Should You Buy a Bourbon Nosing Kit?

Is it essential? No. You can drink bourbon perfectly well without it.

Is it worth it?

Well, my oldest son’s girlfriend traveled all the way from Alabama, and we spent part of her visit passing around scent bottles and laughing at each other’s wrong answers. She fit right in. If that’s not worth something, I don’t know what is.

If you’re serious about bourbon and you want to actually train your palate instead of faking it, grab one here.

And if your family thinks you’re weird for sitting there smelling little bottles, just wait. They’ll come around.

Mine did.

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